Is Introspection the Mirror We Forget to Look Into? 

When was the last time you truly “met” yourself? 

 

This morning, I came across a quote that made me pause: “Talk to yourself daily, otherwise you may miss meeting a wonderful person.” 

For a moment, I wasn’t sure what to make of it. 

Was it self-praise? Sarcasm? Or something deeper? A little reflection clarified it for me. 

“Talk to yourself” is simply an invitation to introspect. 

“A wonderful person” is the self you often forget to meet. 

And “daily” because change begins with consistent self-awareness. 

 

I often tell my students to introspect. 

*Recall the day. 

*Replay moments. 

*Write them down if possible. 

Ask: 

   👉What went well today and why? 

   👉What didn’t and what triggered it? 

   👉What were the exact words used? 

   👉Was the tone defensive, dismissive, hurtful or carrying a hint of hurt? 

 

Then comes the real work: taking corrective action. 

A sincere apology. A brief explanation. Or a conscious promise not to repeat the same mistake. 

And that’s when you “meet” the wonderful person within you. 

 

Because every time we correct ourselves, mentally, emotionally, behaviourally, we evolve. 

We discover our qualities, our humility, and most importantly, our capacity to change. 

No wonder Swami Vivekananda reminded us: “Talk to yourself, otherwise you may miss meeting someone truly wonderful.” 

 

A reminder worth revisiting every single day. 

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💥 Ipsita Choudhury, School Leader 

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DRESS LIKE YOU ARE GOING TO RECEIVE AN AWARD 

Dressing is far more than choosing what to wear. 

For young people, it is often the first meaningful form of self-expression, an early step in discovering identity, confidence, and personal voice. 

Long before we speak, our appearance communicates our mindset:

 *Am I prepared? 

*Do I value myself? 

*Am I ready for the day? 

You don’t need luxury brands or overflowing wardrobes to make a strong impression. 

What truly matters is intention. 

Colours that energize you, outfits that make you stand upright, and styles that feel authentic can shift your confidence in powerful ways. 

Good dressing is a subtle form of self-care. 

It builds self-esteem, encourages participation, supports positive body language, and quietly shapes a young person's growing identity. 

 

As students step into the larger world, college, internships, interviews, their appearance becomes their first introduction. 

Dressing thoughtfully isn’t vanity; it’s awareness. 

It signals respect for oneself, for the opportunity ahead, and for the people one is about to meet. 

Dressing well is never about being fancy. It’s about showing up as the best version of yourself. 

 

How can educators help? 

   *Educators can guide students 

   *By framing dressing sense as a life skill rather than a rule. 

   *Encouraging healthy self-expression 

   *Discuss appropriateness for different settings, and

   *Emphasize self-respect over comparison 

Many schools in India have started grooming classes; it can help young people build a style that is confident, responsible, and uniquely their own. 

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💥 Ipsita Choudhury, School Leader 

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